Corinthians 13:13 ‘Three things will last forever -faith, hope and love- and the greatest of these is love.
Love comes in many different forms throughout our lives. Love for family, for friends, for pets, for beloveds and there’s one more, one
many people probably find the hardest- self love.
What does it mean to self love? Self love is to love yourself for who you are- the great, the wonderful, the good and the not so good parts of you. It’s about looking after yourself and loving yourself- respecting yourself.
It sounds so simple doesn’t it? It’s probably the hardest thing for me to do right. Every day I look in the mirror and point out my imperfections, all the things I would change about myself. I put these unrealistic expectations on myself about how I should look and how I should act, only setting myself up for failure which makes loving myself so much harder.
I put myself down, I criticise myself and it not only affects myself- it affects those around me and the relationships I have, especially with those close to me. When I fail to love myself- I lose sight of how anybody else could love me. I don’t let them in, I’m a closed book, most chapters unread, untold and untouched. It’s difficult for me to let people in because I’m afraid they won’t accept me for who I am.
Some days are easier to change my direction of thoughts than others. It’s important to remember that the devil attacks us when we are weak and vulnerable. As hard as it can be and as hard as I find it, I make myself stop and pray, asking God to strengthen me to turn off from the devil. We were made perfect in God’s image, He is the Potter and we are the clay. Psalm 139:13 ‘For you created my inmost being; You knit me together in my mother’s womb.’ Never forget it, I remind myself everyday. Yes I stumble, I’m not perfect, I don’t look perfect, my life isn’t perfect, but it certainly isn’t going to get any better with me just complaining about myself and that I wish I were different. Nothings going to change if I don’t make the change myself- no one else can do it for you. But don’t think you have to do it alone because ‘Through Christ, all things are possible!’ You are never alone, no matter what situation or circumstance you’ve found yourself in. God is always far bigger and far greater than any problem we are facing.
God is Love… and Love is real. You were fearfully & oh so wonderfully made. (Psalm 139:14)
God’s love for us is even stronger than death, and nothing can separate us from God’s love.
God’s love is sacrificial. (John 3:16)
God’s love lasts forever. (Psalm 136:1)
Love is priceless. Song of Solomon 8:7 ‘Many waters cannot quench love, Nor can the floods drown it. If a man would give for love all the wealth of his house, it would be utterly despised.
Love
…is patient
…is kind
…it does not envy
…it does not boast
…it is not proud
…it is not rude
…it is not self-seeking
…it is not easily angered
…keeps no record of wrongs
…does not delight in evil
…rejoices with the truth
…always protects
…always trusts
…always hopes
…always perseveres
…never fails
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Yesterday, He loved you.
Today, He loves you.
Tomorrow, He will love you.
Nothing will change.
Hebrews 13:8
Love yourself, love others, but most importantly Love God. Matthew 22:37-39 ‘Jesus replied, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind”. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it : “Love your neighbour as yourself.”’
If you find it difficult to love yourself, or those around you, pray to God, talk to Him and meditate on His word. Learn to love in a Godly way. Accept yourself and those who surround you, despite all their differences. For you were all created by God, in God’s image.
Have a blessed day. ❤